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Security Boxes

We go to the bank and put our very important valuables in the Security Boxes that we pay for that contain important documents, beautiful jewels, and our finest memories. Doesn't that also sound that I am talking about our children as well?

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How To Survive Living Together, When You Want A Divorce

In these difficult economic times, many couples feel stuck - living under the same roof while separating or actively pursuing a divorce. This article is about managing a difficult living situation while awaiting finalization of your divorce.

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If Divorce Seems Inevitable, Here’s Where To Start

I’ve worked with individuals and couples at all stages of relationships for 30 years. While many couples want coaching and counseling to make their relationship more satisfying, some are so disconnected one or both people are threatening, contemplating, or actively ready for a divorce.

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The Collaborative Process
Although no two collaborative divorce cases are the same, most involve some or all of the following during the divorce process:

Collaborative Retainer Agreement
In addition to the content of a general retainer agreement, a collaborative retainer agreement includes language committing the signer to the use of the collaborative law model and restricting provisions for court appearances/documents. It will also require the client to use a different lawyer if he or she decides to litigate.

Discovery
Discovery is the exchange of documents and information regarding the parties’ assets and liabilities. The collaborative process requires complete disclosure of all relevant financial information by both parties.

Specialists
Specialists, including coaches, financial specialists and child specialists, are used as needed.

Four-Way or Five-Way Meetings
Both parties, their attorneys, and any specialists whose expertise may be helpful, meet together to discuss goals, exchange information, generate and discuss settlement options, and ultimately, sign the necessary paperwork.

Filing with the Court
Once all settlement terms have been agreed upon, a Marital Termination Agreement (MTA) is drafted, signed by both parties and their attorneys, and filed with the court. A Judgment and Decree is also drafted and sent to the court for a judge’s signature and filing.

If the parties are unable to reach agreement, both parties must hire new lawyers to begin the litigation process.